OWESIFAZANE WATHATHELA INDODA YAKHE I-LOAN UKUZE IQALE IBHIZINISI — MAQEDE YAMSHIYA, YATHOLA OMUNYE OWESIFAZANE
Owesifazane waseNairobi, uDamaris Mutunga, uthi uchithe iminyaka engaphezu kweyishumi esekela indoda ayekholelwa ukuthi izogcina isingumyeni wakhe, kodwa wagcina enobuhlungu ngesikhathi ethola ukuthi le ndoda yayithandana nomunye wesifazane.
Ngokombiko, uDamaris uthi ubudlelwano babo baqala ngesikhathi behlangana esontweni, futhi bathandana cishe kusukela ngo-2012 kuya ku-2023. Ngaleso sikhathi, uthi yena nguyena owayesebenza futhi ethwala ingxenye enkulu yezindleko zasekhaya.
Uthi wayemkhokhela irenti, ukudla nezinye izindleko, kanti kwesinye isikhathi wayemnika ngisho nemali encane yokuzilungisa. UDamaris uthi wayemthemba kakhulu kangangokuba wayemnika ne-ATM card yakhe ukuze akhiphe iholo lakhe, asebenzise imali ekukhokheni izindleko zasekhaya.
💰 WATHATHA ISIKWELETU UKUMQALISELA IBHIZINISI
Enye yezinto ezimqeda amandla kakhulu yisikweletu athi wasithatha esingu-KSh100,000, ngenhloso yokusiza le ndoda ukuthi iqale ibhizinisi eGikomba Market.
Ngokusho kukaDamaris, leli bhizinisi laqala ukuhamba kahle. Kodwa yena uthi akazange azibheke njengomuntu oboleke indoda imali ngoba wayekholelwa ukuthi bakha ikusasa elilodwa.
Ngaleso sikhathi, uthi bobabili babesezama nokuqongelela imali yomshado, ngakho yena waqhubeka nokutshala imali, isikhathi nothando ebudlelwaneni.
💔 KODWA WATHOLA UKUTHI KUNOMUNYE OWESIFAZANE
UDamaris uthi konke kwashintsha ngesikhathi ethola ukuthi le ndoda yayihamba iye e-Embu nomunye umuntu wesifazane.
Uthi le ndoda yagcina isihambise lo wesifazane kumbhishobhi wabo ukuze bathole isibusiso. Kamuva, lapho lobo budlelwano kuthiwa sebuphelile, uDamaris uthi wabona izingxoxo phakathi kwabo wase enquma ukuxhumana nalo wesifazane.
Lo wesifazane, ngokombiko, naye wayengazi ukuthi le ndoda yayivele isebudlelwaneni noDamaris.
Lokhu kwamshiya uDamaris ezibuza ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi ngesikhathi yena ecabanga ukuthi balungiselela umshado, indoda ayeyithanda yayisakha obunye ubudlelwano ngasese.
🚨 UTHI WAGCINA EHLUKANA NAYO
UDamaris uthi ekugcineni wanquma ukuqeda ubudlelwano futhi wacela le ndoda ukuthi ibuyise ukhiye wendlu kanye ne-woofer.
Kodwa uthi kwaba khona esinye isigameko esibuhlungu lapho le ndoda kuthiwa yafika kwakhe ngesikhathi ingane yakhe isesikoleni, yamshaya.
🚩 UTHI MANJE USEYAZIBONA IZIMPAWU AYENGAZIBONI
Uma ebheka emuva, uDamaris uthi zazikhona izimpawu zokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle.
Uthi le ndoda yayifuna ukuthi ubudlelwano babo bufihlwe, yayingafuni ukuthatha izithombe naye futhi kuthiwa yayizisusa izithombe zabo uma zivela.
UDamaris uthi ngenxa yokuthi kwakungokokuqala ngqa ukuthandana, wayengazi ukuthi lezi kwakuyizimpawu okufanele azinake.
Indaba yakhe isiphenduke isifundo esibuhlungu ngokuthembana, imali, uthando kanye nokubeka imingcele ebudlelwaneni.